Skimpy Types of Lingerie not the only Way to Spice Up a Night 

Keeping the fire burning in a relationship is so important and yet, it can be so difficult to achieve in our rush and hurry kind of world. This is especially true for couples with little ones on their hands. It seems as though peeping eyes are never far from view and even on the rare chance that you get all the little ones in the bed on time, you often skip the skimpy lingerie, the candles and the music from fear of making the wrong move and waking the kids. With all the preparation that goes into just preparing for a night alone, it is no wonder the flames are barely simmering . . . you are just too tired to blaze!

If any of this sounds familiar and you find yourself dreaming of sleep and not intimacy, then wake up Mama! You’ve fallen into the hole far too many of we mothers fall into – the parent trap. You have lost the woman within the mom. Here are few tips to finding that missing person you once knew and loved . . .

Just Desserts
Arrange for the kids to go to the sitter’s about an hour before your husband comes home, slip into that lingerie which is on the skimpy side that you have neglected for far too long and then sit on the dining room table awaiting his return from work. Boy will he be surprised when he comes home to an empty house, empty plate and nothing but dessert!

Hit Send with a Lingerie Reminder
Since many parents of infants or young children have little time for ‘before play’, start in a way that is both quick and seductive. Take a sexy photo of yourself either in the buff or in skimpy lingeries and text it to your husband’s cell phone. It’s the perfect way to get the sparks flying without having to rush through love making sessions because the baby woke up.

Cowboy Up
A quick and easy way to spice up your marriage is through simple exotic costumes that can often be pulled together with a look inside your closet. Don’t worry. None of these takes more than two minutes to create. Pull out your cowboy boots and wear them with nothing but a smile. Drape a hipster belt across your hips for a sexy look that will drive him wild. Invade his closet, borrow his baseball hat or tie for instant va-va-voom.

Keep Everything Handy
Keep a little basket beneath your bed of all the things you may need when you are having alone time. This might include scanty lingerie or emergency makeup for those times you want to doll up a bit but don’t want to go through the house searching for your lip gloss. Have a hiding spot out of reach from little hands in the living room, kitchen and bedroom where you can hide 'intimate needs'. This way if the mood strikes and the kids have all fallen like flies in every other room in the house; you will still be able to be spontaneous.