Your Guy and Lingerie - Some Reasons

Your boyfriend or husband has been begging you for months to strut around in a little teddy, and you just don't see why you should give in to his chauvinistic needs. A woman doesn't have to cater to a man's every whim these days, right? Well, no, but perhaps you should consider it anyways. The reasons why he wants to see you in lingerie maysurprise you.

He Worships your Body

Say what? That's right; he's asking to see more of you, not less of you. That's because when a man is in love he doesn't see all those little flaws we obsess over day after day. Oh God, what if he sees our cellulite/stretch marks/ wiggly parts! He won't see any of those things; instead he'll see a beautiful woman in very sexy clothing. Bottom line: he doesn't notice the negative bodily aspects you obsess about every day.

He Wants to Have Fun

Ever notice how men never stop being boys, and how they love to play? Give a man a kid and a toy truck, and he's gone for hours. The same principal applies to your relationship, in and out of bed. He simply wants to have fun with you. Playing a part or trying something different like lingerie in the bedroom helps stimulate this playful side in him, and keeps things from getting too serious. Relations with your partner shouldn't feel like a burden.

He Wants you to Feel Confident

If you don't feel good enough about yourself to wear lingerie in front of your partner, your man may be put out and a little insulted. By saying you're ugly you are perhaps questioning his taste in a partner. If you strut your stuff, even if you feel overweight or like you have bad hair, your belief will be projected onto others and they'll start to see you in the same light.

The bottom line is that most men don't want to see their wives or girlfriends in lingerie because they are secretly fantasizing about lingerie models. They simply want to see the sexy woman they love, for who she is. Keep this in mind, and maybe give your partner a surprise!